Dear CBU: Letters from England
Entry #7: Saying Goodbye

Correspondent: Sally Lynch
Senior at CBU
Natural Science Major
English/Psychology Minor
Hometown: Covington, Louisiana
(45 miles north of New Orleans)

Looking back on the last few days at Edge Hill, I am so glad that I decided not to travel excessively during December. I was able to spend my last couple of weeks having fun in Ormskirk with my UK friends, and that was, in many ways, much more valuable to me than any trip that I could have squeezed in. It was a little stressful at times, however; most of the academic deadlines were within those last two or three weeks and everyone had plenty of work to keep them busy.

On the awful day that UK and American students began parting ways, there were lots of email addresses and hugs exchanged, and plenty of tears shed...I made a generous contribution to the latter. I have to be bluntly honest, Saturday, December 17th, was one of the worst days of my entire life. Unfortunately, the rules of Edge Hill require that UK students must vacate the dorms no later than 24 hours after their last exam, which meant that I had to say my farewells to the people I had come to know and love almost two full days before I myself got on a plane to go home.

Fortunately, one of my friends who lived in the village invited me to spend Sunday with her, and to have dinner with she and her boyfriend that evening. It was such a wonderful day, and one last chance to get to know a friend whom I would not be able to see for a while.

By the time I left, I was one of only three students on campus, and it was a huge relief to finally be away from the quiet and eerie stillness of the empty dorms. Monday, December 19th, myself and two other American students were up at 6:15 AM and dragging our luggage out to the school van for the drive to the airport. The flight back to the states was, surprisingly, pretty empty which gave me the chance to stretch out across two seats...that is always something to be grateful for!

I watched the rolling green patches of the English countryside grow smaller and smaller, until the greens blended together, and the city of Manchester was just a speck on the carpet of Great Britain. "Goodbye, England. Goodbye, Edge Hill." Goodbye, I missed it already!

During the flight, I read the letters and notes that several of my friends and I had exchanged. They brought tears, but I was so happy to have them to read and re-read whenever I felt lonely for my UK family. I cannot stress enough how important it is to exchange all of the information that you possibly can with new friends...phone numbers, emails, IM names, whatever...in this technological age, there is no excuse for not keeping in touch! If there is one wish that I could make for future CBU students who do chose to study at Edge Hill, it would be that everyone's worst day there is the day you have to say goodbye. Yes, it is terrible, and yes, it hurts, but I would not trade any moment of my semester in England for anything. Tears and all, it was everything that I wanted from an adventure abroad.

Read Sally's Entries!
Entry #1: Hello to all my fellow Buccaneers back at CBU!
Entry #2: Subtle Differences
Entry #3: The A's, B's, and C's of Studying Abroad
Entry #4: Travel Tips
Entry #5: Q and A Session
Entry #6: The Countdown Begins!
Entry #7: Saying Goodbye
Entry #8: Re-Entry: the Ups and Downs

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